Sunday, May 11, 2008

My Mother's Day booty and more...

Ha! I bet you came in all psyched to see me drop it like it's hot, yes? Nope...it is kinda hot-but I meant the other booty. Favorite guy has done it again! Not only does my darling put up with the daily rigors of my insanity, but he does it with grace and love. He's a treasure! Look at all of my goodies, what more could a girl ask for?


It's been an amazing journey; this parenting thing, never a dull moment, seldom a day's rest and yet there is nothing I'd rather spend my life being. I've been a bit disheartened of late, lots of antinatalism talk going on in the world. I'm just not sure how I feel about the concept. For one, the decision or not, to become a parent is based on a number of factors; biological and psychological. Ecological? Not so much.

In my naive albeit ideological youth, I never intended to have children, but the universe had a whole other plan in store. When I became pregnant with my first child, I stumbled upon the realization that I'd confused having children with becoming a parent. I would sooner itch (my personal damnation) forever than be pregnant again, but I would jump, leap, soar at the prospect of parenting. It isn't a choice but, an internal beckoning.

Yes, there are too many people on the planet- agreed. There are also too many cars, electronic devices, homes, packaged foods and more. I'm all about making a difference, after all I'd like to leave a smidgen of planet for the two people I've created. I just don't know that robbing others of the gift of parenting and even procreation is the route I'd take. Call me silly, ignorant even (as I've previously heard it coined) but I fail to believe we; man as a collective have any real control over the universe and her destiny.

Look at our track record, don't use paper, use plastic. Don't use plastic, use fabric. Buy PVC, save a cow. Don't buy PVC the machinery emits pollutants, instead buy recycled leather. Okay, so when everyone else joins the "Save a Cow" campaign...just where do you propose I obtain this 'recycled' leather? Meh.

We are vegetarian, we conserve energy, we recycle, we're fixed, our pets are rescues and they're fixed too, we shop local when financially feasible. There really isn't much more we can do, but live. Sometimes I wonder in my own warped way if the universe is saying. "Okay smart-ass, you figured that out, now how about this?" It's as if she's given us just enough rope to hang ourselves.

Surely, had man not ruined land to build homes, built pollution laden vehicles to travel, industry to pay for it and, government to control it all, there might just be enough trees and bees for us all, yes? And yet our hypothetical fix is not to go without man-made luxuries, but to go without man. I guess I am ignorant because I just don't see this plan working, not even a little bit. Contrary to modern popular belief the hankering to espouse and reproduce derives naturally, and with far more intensity than the need for a SUV. By nature man is designed to reproduce, to form tribes and build communities.

So, once we've threatened humanity in an antinatalist effort to "recycle", and "utilize current resources", how do you propose we reach the future? How can you be so certain this life is it? Perhaps it is all some divine plan to wipe the globe of its current inhabitants for a greater purpose. It is possible? Remember the dinosaurs? You can err on the side of caution or, you can accept the consequences of our actions; chalk it up as a learning experience, history even. I'd like to think there's something bigger, better and much less destructive in the cards, surely Mother Earth can do better than the "Carbon based Destructos" of today.

Yes, change is needed; we must learn accept the things we cannot change. Change a light bulb, buy a hybrid, plant a tree, worry about the here and now. Who are we to design the future when we've already botched the present. Truly, there are some things left in this world even we have no control over, be thankful.

The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance. ~ Nathaniel Branden

8 comments:

Rocki's Rock 'n Beads said...

Very enjoyable and heartfelt post. The quote is perfect.
☼ Rocki

DesireeDesigns said...

great blog. some eye-opening questions here. all we can do is live, indeed.

Helen said...

Super post! And I can so relate to it. Love the sewing machine too!

DivaDea said...

True dat. But I wish the other side would lay off, too. If I know I don't want kids and I know I'd be terrible at it, I should be able to live that way without harrassment.

BabyLyons said...

once again you have written an amazing post! it seems you helped to focus my mind on what it was already thinking.

High Desert Diva said...

Another thought provoking post.

Kiandra said...

what a good thought-provoking post...i think in the end, just like you said...all we can do is just live.

i think i can do that...

Anonymous said...

An as usual my friend truly hits it on the nail!!!! Is this shit really real? I mean really it starts with the gas prices, the dtv billshit and this here stimulus package ain't( smile friend!!) saying shit to me but, "you better watch out because we got your ASS!!" Unfortunately this here happens to be our reality and we just got to roll and when i say roll i mean let this here government know that they will hold no one down but their own because we know this is real and we got this!!!!! keep on keepin on my people!!

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